Showing posts with label determination. Show all posts
Showing posts with label determination. Show all posts

Wednesday, 8 January 2014

TOP APPLICATIONS EVERY SMART PHONE USER MUST HAVE!

Now-a-days, everybody is so much consumed in their lives that we hardly get time to actually jot down points or any ideas on a piece of paper and keep it safely with us. So safely that we ourselves forget where we had kept that piece of paper.
Such incidents happen almost everyday to every other person. This does not mean that you have a poor memory but it simply means that you are too much consumed in your life and you need better ways to manage you lifestyle.
thank god! our generation is blessed with smart phones and so I am going to tell you top applications that are on my MUST HAVE list for every smart phone user:

1. My Fitness Pal

We all know health is wealth. A healthy mind stays in a healthy body and this application helps you in doing just that. This is one application that is totally worth downloading. It keeps a track on your calories at the same time helps you in achieving your ideal weight.

2. Wally

Now, who on earth has time to remember how much cash you spent on 31st December? well, this application does have that much time, it tracks your daily expenses and the best part is the application has categories like groceries, personal, basics etc. and you can add your category too. So, at the end of every month you know where did you spend your money.

3. Newshunt

Who doesn't want to know whats happening in and around the world you are living?
This one application will give you all news about whats happening not only in your country but also internationally. The best part is it gives you news fro various newspapers like : The Hindu, Hindustan times, Times of India etc. Totally worth having news just at the tap on your phone screen.

4. Truecaller

This is one application that I guess you already know about. Its so much useful. It is the world's largest collaborative phone directory that fits in your pocket and makes it easier to get in touch with people acress the globe.
Best feature I this application is that you can also track the loction of the phone number if the owner of that number has turned his location settings on.

5. Dropbox

It lets you bring all your photos, documets and videos anywhere and share them easily. A ccess any file you save to your dropbox from all your computers, smart phones and even the dropbox website!



 
Best feature in this app is that it gives you 2 GB of space absolutely free when you sign up.

So, these are the top applications that every smart phone user must have to balance out life and make things easier.

Keep  your smart phone on!
tada!
:D




 

Friday, 29 November 2013

ITS WHAT YOU DON'T SAY THAT COUNTS!

 Silence does speak a thousand words!

Ever wondered why many people chose to shut their mouth and express their emotions through their body language? ever wondered why is it said that " silence is a girls last way of expressing anger" ???
ever wondered why mime acting is so powerful that without uttering a single word audiences are able to connect better involved and affected by performances of the actors?

To your surprise let me tell you all this happens because when we are silent WE SPEAK EVEN MORE LOUD.
Yes you read that right. It a scientifically proven fact that body-language makes 97% of conversation which means speaking and our tone come in the category of left-out 3%.

The word "body-LANGUAGE" speaks for itself that is it too is a form of language like English, Russian, German, Indian etc.

For example, the very common phrase  "first impression is the last impression" means when a person sees you for the first time he makes a picture about you in his/her mind. That picture makes lasting impression because in the first meeting a person makes a certain impression about you in flashes of pictures like the camera does it. So, our mind works like a camera that clicks the picture of strangers in flashes of seconds. Those pictures last for a very long time in our sub-conscious mind which affect that persons attitude/behaviour towards us.

Now, for that picture to be beautiful and memorable you need to have a very good and strong body language because whenever or wherever you are going or even sitting your body is communicating certain messages to universe and its people around you.
In order to have that charming first impression you need to start communicating in the right fashion with your body-language and use it as an added advantage for yourself.

Always remember whatever you think your body reacts in the same manner. For example, if you put forward a certain message but you do not believe in it your body is bound to reflect that.
So, first and foremost tip to achieve that great body language is to believe in whatever you say. Just don't speak words from your mouth because you have to, say them because you believe that your opinion will change the lives of many people.

Here are common body language blunders that people make :

1.  Mistaken Gestures
Gestures are actions. The movement of the limbs, tilting of the head, shrugging of shoulders etc . . . are examples of gesture. Improper gesture is one of the most common mistake that people make for example, during an interview if a candidate has his arms crossed then it indicates that the candidate is of defensive nature, keeps secrets and not open to communication. Therefore it is very important to maintain a proper gesture during communication.

2. Improper Posture
Posture is a way a person carries himself. The way a person stands the way he walks says, much about his personality. If a person stands in a very stiff manner then it may create problem for the speaker as it may be offensive and unnatural reaction towards the speaker, however if a person stands in a natural manner then it indicates confidence, and it also becomes easy to maintain eye contact. But, don't confuse natural with the way you have made your body accustomed. Natural here does not mean slouching back or pooching tummy. It means your spine should be erect and in coordination with your neck and shoulders.

3. Appearance Blunder
Many times people make appearance mistakes, it is very important to dress right for the right occasion. One common appearance mistake is dressing in a sloppy manner. If a person dresses himself in a sloppy manner then, it is an indication that he doesn’t care about things and that he is unprofessional. on the other hand if a person dresses decently then it creates a good impression on the mind of speaker. Another common appearance mistake is that people don’t dress according to the occasion, for example formal dressing will be out of place in a casual party. Also, people the only thing that matters more than your dress is your shoes. Yes! before checking you out people check your shoes so do not overlook them. Have a good decent pair for every occasion and please no dirty shoes here.

4. Avoiding Eye Contact
This is one of the top common slip-ups that people make for some reason. Everyone knows the theory that if someone is avoiding eye contact, it means that the person is lying or hiding something. Not everyone may be comfortable looking at someone’s eye, but lack of eye contact does give the impression that the person is afraid that someone will see right through them. But do not go all the way looking into someone's eye without blinking that would give the impression of being a ZOMBIE . Keep a healthy eye contact between conversations that suggest that you are confident about what you are saying and invite question in its context with an open heart.

5. Fiddling or Fidgeting
Regardless of if you’re on a date or at a job interview, fiddling and fidgeting is not an endearing habit. It screams lack of confidence, insecurity, disinterest or nervousness. Take your pick. One thing’s for sure, don’t expect a call from the potential employer or a second date.

Therefore, your body language can help you a lot in communication as people observe your body language almost as much as they listen to what you are saying and the end result is that they believe your body language more than what you are saying. You can practice on your body language to make sure that you are sending the right message across.

Keep the charm of your new and improvised body language on!
see you all
next week
till then,
Keep smiling
tada!









 

Monday, 2 September 2013

Hello people
how have you been??????????? I had a blast last week.....................(okay! NOT REALLY!!!) I was dealing with severe cold attack....:(( *sob*sob*
But, I am here again....
So, today I am going to share one of my life's experiences which taught me that "every experience in life happens for good, to make you a better and complete person". Everybody thinks , actually "believes" that they have worlds heaviest burden on their shoulders but this is not TRUE!!!....
This I realised when now I sit back and think about those troubles and hindrances which then seemed "BURDEN" but were nothing more than *silly minds COMPLICATIONS*.
So the story starts like this......
ha-ha!...don't worry I am not going to eat up your precious time so, here's the jest...
I was in my graduation college. Like every batch my batch also had two north and south pole groups i.e., two groups that could go to each and every extent to make the other group look or feel inferior and I was the *favourite* girl among both the groups( yayyyyy!!!)....No! the story isn't this sweet. Actually the whole trouble starts here itself...
till first and second year everything was fine but slowly both the groups started feeling jealous of me because of my good grades, good looks, good personality and yes I was teachers pet too and on top of that I was very active in extra curricular activities too!!!
slowly and steadily both the groups shifted their focuses from each other and their biggest enemy on this planet of life became "CHARMIS" ( awwwww...:(((()
They did every possible thing to make me feel inferior from boycotting me to every possible trick their minds could think of!!!
Both the groups got together and became friends and put the whole blame for their rivalry on me without giving any chance of expression  to ME!!! (UNFAIR)
No wonder I felt like Othello ( lonely and sad)....
But, I did not give up. I got good grades continued to be the best and here I am today- successful and happy soul!!!
Now, many people go through similar situations in life but lose their morale and self esteem but the key to remember is " when you are going up the ladder of success the people who are below you will always try to pull you down".
Therefore, Believe in yourself and your capabilities. They are your haters because its hard for them to accept that they are your followers and they want to be like you.
So, next time anybody tries to put you down or is jealous of you give a smile and say thank you  :)
Because they are your real "MOTIVATORS".
So now after 2 years when I think about that incident I laugh at it because the problem which seemed never ending is now a joke to laugh at!
                                          " Nothing is permanent. Neither your sorrows nor your happiness"

So live in the moment. Enjoy every moment and by that I mean "sorrow" as well because if you enjoy only "happiness" then you'll never realise the real value of it.
If you are feeling melancholic enjoy it don't run away from it. Face it without any hesitations' and that's when you will know your real potentials and real character.

Keep your charm on!
tada!

 

Sunday, 25 August 2013

Introducing CHARMISz CHARM

                                 Bringing charm to your life...

Namaste!

This is Charmis's blog. I am a newbie in this world of blogging. I hope the content I am going to share through my posts helps in bringing charm to your life as it does in mine.

As the name suggests "Charmis" i.e.; ME..My only aim via this blog is to share the content that helps add a dash of charm to one's personality be it in body language, makeup, dressing up, writing, etcetera.